Number One is Fear of Failure.
This is So Very Common and easily established in the subconscious of young children in myriad ways. All that is needed is for a child to dive into a creative project, like building a sandcastle or painting/drawing something pretty for Mom. Rather than being praised or received with love and gratitude, perhaps they are scolded for making a mess. Mom may be in a bad mood that day with a headache and she takes the drawing and throws it in the garbage.
What happened? The Child is creating something, and it is met with rejection, criticism or even punishment and what\’s more, from the most significant people in their world, their parents! Therefore, it is a BIG DEAL.
Another common example that creates subconscious fear of failure imprints happens at school. For instance, a class project requiring the child to present in front of everyone. Something happens and they are laughed at, some kind of humiliation or strong negative judgement, possibly failed. This kind of imprint creates the fear of failure amongst peers.
In each case the emotions experienced from the outcome seals the subconscious imprint. They identify with it and it can forever stop them from experiencing success due to the fear of failure and the terrible feelings that go with it.
Remember always that once the imprint is there, the role of their subconscious is to make sure their future behavior is congruent with that. This is how the self-fulfilling prophecy maintains itself, so that failure after failure both proves the belief and cements it into their life.
Second to Failure is the Fear of Success
The fear of Success is the very same imprint as that of Failure except in the opposite direction. Many people don’t even know that someone could be afraid of success, but it\’s actually very common. To understand this, always begin with the primary years of subconscious data collection, ages 0 to 7, then consider the crucial formative years of 7 to 12.
When a child succeeds in a big way at whatever they are doing or engaged in it will be followed by consequences of some kind. They might experience praise and be given a material reward. Or they could be shunned or ignored like I was when I achieved and passed major events. Sometimes the consequences involve a big increase in responsibility and the expectations of continued effort and achievement by their parents, friends, and siblings. This causes STRESS and FEAR, associated with the fact they had succeeded and now their life is becoming stressful and miserable. The thought of losing the new position and esteem drives them on but the pattern is now established. If I succeed, the consequences are big, and what if I cannot maintain it? Will I lose my friends and loved ones?
Another common scenario that develops fear of success is where a person really achieves something that raises their position, status, income, etc. Often the consequence is the loss of old friends who can no longer feel connected to them. Such a loss can be quite dramatic and painful, that imprints their subconscious and so in the future when promotion is up, they self-sabotage and they don’t know it.
The 3rd big Dissonance Imprint is – “You always Fail”
This type of imprint comes most often from Dad or Mom, and most likely between 7 to age 12 – 14. A long story short, the child tried to do something, or perhaps pass math at school, or bring home a good report card but instead failed, and an angry unconscious parent scolds them harshly and exclaims something like, “ YOU ALWAYS FAIL, I AM SO ASHAMED OF YOU!!!!! GO TO YOUR ROOM AND GET OUT OF MY SIGHT!”
I think this one is easily understood by anyone, enough said.
The 4th Dissonance Imprint is – “You can’t have that”
Again, this imprint is easy to understand, and it can be developed in the child’s subconscious in many ways. Basically, the child sees something it wants or would like to experience, and they are told “NO! You cannot have that” Most likely this will be a common experience for the child in question. Either because the parents cannot actually afford it, or, they are unkind, cheap, uncaring, or cruel. Often this imprint deepens because the parent follows the no with reasons like: You don’t deserve that. Or, Only rich people can have that, or only lucky people can have that etc. There may be humiliation implied like, “What makes you think you could ever have that? Are you crazy???? And this may have been said in front of peers or some significant other.
Although as an adult they may have excellent skills and advanced degrees you commonly see this kind of person living in mediocrity. The cognitive dissonance locks them in place and they never know.
The 5th Dissonant Imprint – “I Don’t Deserve That, I Am Not Worthy”
Here is a big one, and extremely common.
Realize that the percentage of parents who actually understand subconscious programming and its importance are less than 4% of the world’s populace.
As the Founder of Depth Healing I have served a great many people around the world and the ways in which their parents conditioned their children’s subconscious minds makes me cry. Suffice it to say it is unbelievable!
All children must receive and should receive lots and lots of UNCONDITIONAL praise and admiration from BOTH Mom and Dad. Regardless of their performance at ANYTHING, they should always feel LOVED, WANTED, and ADMIRED. The
parent’s love must NEVER depend on performance or some external thing.
They all need to be encouraged to EXPLORE, PLAY, and RISK so they gain confidence, skill, and courage. All children should receive as much exposure to diverse environments and other experiences, arenas, etc. to expand their subconscious library and develop their brains if it is affordable and possible. If not, other sources of cognitive stimulation can be easily had through the careful selection of movies and other healthy media.
NO CHILD should EVER be exposed to the NEWS, or any other form of brainwashing unless they really totally don’t care about their kids at all. Garbage in, Garbage out.
Very few children grow up feeling worthy at the subconscious level of success, love, happiness, or greatness. Regardless of education, that type of Cognitive Dissonance is very harmful and establishes low financial ceilings, mediocre relationships, poor health, and busted dreams.
Now ask yourself these questions:
How many different things have you tried and you’re still struggling???
How much time and money have you invested and your business and life are still the same???
What will I be able to have and do when all my blocks are removed???? Why not me???
If I don’t remove the Cognitive Dissonance from my Subconscious now, where will I be at the end of 2026, or in 5 years????
Think about it and reserve your place now!