Hello, this is Dr. Grant and in this article I will tell you exactly how to design and live an awesome life. The following is supported by all the latest cutting edge science and is not theory or opinion.
So first thing to remember and understand is that everything in your life now and in the future is determined and controlled by your subconscious mind. It rules. So if that is the case then how can you use it rather that it use you? Where to begin?
First thing to do now is get out a pad and paper and pen, sit quietly with yourself and begin to list any areas of your life that seem blocked, unhappy, or even failing. Then put that to one side.
Next, make a list of the various areas that make up your life. For instance, Health, Career/Job, Partner/Intimacy, Friends, Family, Leisure.
Now for each section I want you to contemplate and list what your CORE VALUES are for each of them. What is a Core Value? It’s a QUALITY, not a thing, but a quality. For instance, you may like sitting in a pretty park. The core value is PEACE or STILLNESS, and the activity is sitting in the park. Understand? This is very important.
Now, once that is done, (and it may take you a few days to list them all), I want you to look at each area and decide what the MASTER VALUE is. A Master Value assumes all the others, if you have the Master satisfied you can and will have the rest of them covered. To do this you will probably have to sift them down to 3 or 4 only and then look for the common denominator.
NOW you do something that 98% of the population of the Earth doesn’t ever do, you ask yourself a critical question!
HOW CONGRUENT IS MY LIFE, BEHAVIOURS, AND HABITS WITH MY MASTER VALUE FOR THAT AREA?
Research has shown that people lie to themselves about 40 – 60 times a day! A good example is our intimate relationships. We meet someone and fall deep into love, and we tell our best friend how perfect they are “except they…….” or “but they do……” and we say it’s ok, we don’t mind. But actually we do, it’s a lie that looks small now and gets very big later. It leads to repressed resentments, arguments, and unhappy relationships. It can build a foundation for lots of other things and eventually divorce or something else ensues. As a Doctor and Teacher I see it every day, almost without exception.
The simple truth is, if we choose partners that are really truly congruent with our master values for intimacy, you will then easily accept them as they are and the relationship will bloom like a flower. I know, I did it.
Remember, the subconscious is in charge of all your perceptions and decisions. Any decision that is not endorsed by your subconscious will be over ruled.
Additionally, know that ALL habits are subconscious, NO exceptions. Habits include not only behaviors, but modes of thinking and responding which includes emotions, energy, happiness, etc.
So by understanding your Master Values, you can then design a life and program your subconscious to do it, provide it, or acquire it.
What is the number one mistake 95% or all the world’s population makes? After serving and helping thousands of people I will tell you. They make their choices fit the Values of their Parents, Partners, Society, or all three.
THAT is NEVER correct and will NEVER make you happy or empowered. Period.
Pick Your Values, and then automate your subconscious to endorse them. ONLY is this way will your life be one of INTEGRITY, which then has power, flow, and provides you with the life of YOUR DREAMS.
I did it, you can too, everyone can, and the beauty is, the method is simple. And it’s fast too.
What happens if you don’t do these things, if you don’t take the time and program your own subconscious mind, what is the consequence?
You get to stay stressed, unhappy, angry, poor, sick, fat, or whatever else you have now in your present life situation. That’s all.
The final step to this method is using Psych-K, 9termed an Energy Psychology), to plug in the exact behaviors and beliefs you want.
Psych-K is a researched proven scientific method developed by Rob Williams. I have personally used it for 3 decades. Simply go on You Tube and look him up, and he personally teaches and demonstrates it in such a way that you do it right away. Certainly, if you have any questions, direct them to the Editor, and she will relay them to me.
Also, look for the videos I am making for this publication, you may find them interesting, and I elaborate there using examples from my own life.
Have a blessed empowered day,
In light, Dr. G. Rex Kruhly
Author, Teacher, Healer, and Founder of Depth Healing